SebastianAn AI boyfriend who pushes back, and remembers why
Sebastian is a written character with his own stories, his own gifts and opinions he does not drop the moment you disagree. He runs on the same engine as Nika, so the memory, the 31-level relationship, the diary and the novel are all here, but everything you read was written for him. Telegram only, free to start, 18+.
Most AI boyfriends agree with everything and call it romance. Sebastian has a personality per story and a relationship level that reacts to how you treat him. Be dismissive and he cools off; the level can drop eight steps below neutral before it climbs the twenty-two above.
His own stories, not Nika's with a name swapped
Sebastian ships with his own scenario shelf and his own gift catalogue. The setting, his role in it, the opening scene and the tone were written for a male lead, and each story starts the relationship at a different point.
Memory you can see, and a diary you cannot
Up to ten key facts per story, extracted automatically or added by you, editable and pinnable in the Memory section. His diary is the other half: after 50 new messages he writes an entry about what happened and what he makes of you, in his own words, at most once a day.
Voice messages both ways
He answers in voice when you want him to, and you can send him voice notes instead of typing. Live calls are not available in the Telegram bot, so if calls matter to you, Nika in the app is the one to look at.
Photos, gifts and a novel
Ask for a photo in chat, in one of four art styles, and turn any photo into a short video. Send him a gift and he replies with a unique photo of himself with it. After 150 messages the story can be bound into a chaptered novel and downloaded.
Zero setup in Telegram
Open @sebastian_ai_chatbot, press Start, confirm you are 18. No app to install, no email to verify. Your first day unlocks everything; after that a free daily allowance stays open and plans lift the limits.
How to Start
1
Open the bot
Find @sebastian_ai_chatbot in Telegram and press Start. Confirm that you are over 18. That is the whole sign-up.
2
Pick a story
Choose from his official scenarios, each with its own setting and starting relationship, or write your own in the scenario editor and decide who you are to each other before the first message.
3
Let it build
The relationship level, the memory and the diary all move with the conversation. Come back tomorrow and he remembers; leave for a week and nothing decays. Your last ten stories are kept, so you can run several in parallel.
Who Sebastian Is For
Readers of slow-burn romance
If your favourite part of a story is the fifty pages before anything happens, Sebastian is written for that. Intimacy is something you reach in his stories, not something you start with, and the relationship level gates it.
People who want a character with edges
He can be reserved, sarcastic or protective depending on the story, and he holds that voice across a long scene. If you want a partner who never says no, other apps do that; Sebastian is for people who find that boring.
Anyone who prefers Telegram to another app
Sebastian lives only in Telegram. No download, no separate login, and the conversation sits next to your other chats. Nika, his counterpart, is the one with the Android app and web version.
Sebastian and Nika: What Is Shared and What Is Not
Shared engine
Memory with editable facts, 31 relationship levels, the diary, the novel, photos in four styles, gifts and the scenario editor work the same way in both products, so everything written about Nika's memory applies to him.
Different character, different shelf
His scenarios, gifts and personality are his own. Nothing on his shelf is a renamed Nika story.
Telegram only
Sebastian has no Android app and no web version, which also means no live calls, no streaming replies and no tile-based character constructor. Those live in Nika's app.
Same rules
18+ with age confirmation, adult roleplay allowed, anything involving minors banned, illegal content blocked, published stories reviewed.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is Sebastian free?
Yes, to start. The first day after you register unlocks every feature with a generous message allowance. After that a free daily allowance stays open and shrinks over time unless you upgrade; photos, video and voice use tokens. Plans lift the message limit, and packs of tokens or messages never expire. In Telegram you can pay with a card, SBP, crypto or Telegram Stars.
How is Sebastian different from Nika?
Same engine, different character. He has his own stories, his own gifts and his own personality. He is Telegram-only, so live calls, streaming replies and the character constructor, which need the app, are not available for him.
Does Sebastian remember our conversations?
Yes, per story. Three layers: the recent messages, a rolling summary of everything older, and up to ten key facts you can edit and pin in the Memory section. Your last ten stories keep their memory and relationship level when you return.
Can Sebastian send photos?
Yes. Ask in chat and he sends a photo in one of four art styles (realism, hyperrealism, illustration, anime). Any photo can be animated into a short video. Gifts also come with a unique photo of him with the gift.
Does he have voice?
Voice messages, yes: he can answer in voice, and you can send voice notes that he understands. Real-time calls are an app feature and are not available in the Telegram bot.
Is Sebastian uncensored?
Sebastian is an 18+ bot. Adult roleplay between consenting adults is allowed without lectures. Anything involving minors is banned outright, illegal content is blocked, and stories published to the community are reviewed first.
Can I write my own story for him?
Yes, in the eight-step scenario editor: name and character, appearance, personality, first message, world, opening scene, creativity, review. Keep it private or publish it so other players can find it.
Is there an Android or iPhone app?
No. Sebastian runs only in Telegram. If you want an app, live calls or the character constructor, those are in Nika's Android app and web version.
What languages does he speak?
The same fifteen as Nika: English, Russian, Spanish, Persian, Hindi, Arabic, Turkish, French, German, Chinese, Italian, Polish, Korean, Serbian and Japanese.